๐๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐
๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ (3/3): ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐พ๐๐ถ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒฬ๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฎฬ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ฟ
After the neutral zone (1/3) and its risks of deadlock (2/3), one question remains: what really helps to gain a foothold on the other side?
Reaching the other side is not just a matter of willpower. It is also a matter of discernment.
๐๐ฎ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฒฬ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐บ๐ฒฬ๐ป๐ฒ ๐ฎฬ ๐๐ป๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ, ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. ๐๐ ๐น๐ฎฬ, ๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐.
This new role is part of a new system. It takes time to understand its rules, its players, its interactions. Observe before acting. Decode before deciding.
Then comes the refocusing: clarifying what depends on oneself, defining one's zone of control. Without this, energy is scattered and priorities are lost.
Self-work then takes on its full meaning: identifying one's limiting thoughts, recognizing one's biases, no longer confusing one's thoughts with oneself, ceasing to overinterpret the facts one observes.
๐๐ฒ ๐ง๐ ๐ (๐ง๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ด๐ป๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐, ๐๐ต๐ฟ๐๐๐ถ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ .๐ผ๐ฟ๐ด) allows us to identify our cognitive biases and strengths, to understand what makes us go around in circles and what we can really rely on to act differently.
This is what allows us to build a real action plan, rather than reacting in automatic mode.
But the terrain remains shifting. Unforeseen events don't disappear; they become part of the journey. The challenge is no longer to avoid them, but to continue moving forward with them, staying focused on what matters.
And that's where something is built: the difficulties, the repeated adjustments, the necessary adaptations, all of this develops a form of agility.
Over time, it's no longer just about resilience. It's about anthragilititude: the ability to become stronger through instability itself.
๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ป ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฟ๐ผฬ๐น๐ฒ, ๐ฒฬ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ป ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐น ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐, ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ป'๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ป๐ถ ๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผฬ๐น๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ป๐ถ ๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฏ๐ถ๐ฟ. ๐'๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ฏ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฐ๐น๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฎ๐ท๐๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟโฆ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐น๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐.
๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐, ๐พ๐'๐ฒ๐๐-๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐พ๐๐ถ ๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐น๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒฬ ๐ฎฬ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ป ๐ป๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฟ๐ผฬ๐น๐ฒ ?
๐ง๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฃ๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐๐๐๐ฒฬ๐บ๐ถ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ถฬ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐บ๐ฒ Antifragilite
